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To reach your desired destiny, it is imperative that you exploit your full potential. Any successful person will agree that despite life challenges you must raise above your circumstances to achieve success. High-achievers are the people who position themselves high above the common crowd and keep going no matter what.

Look deep within – By looking into your inner self , you will harvest some great inspiration. Refuse to be content with where you are at present or what you have achieved so far. Rather, strive to constantly go beyond the normal thus reach your full potential. Reaching your goal does not mean that you can now relax, it means that you need to keep going without loosing the momentum.

Challenge yourself - Always seek to challenge your capabilities and you will overcome the spirit of settling for average. You too have the ability of reaching your full potential and becoming the best in your niche. The achievement of one stage is the commencement of another thus past success must not hinder your current or future success.

Learn from the past – In another way, success is merely a matter of how you are going to use your past to inspire and propel yourself to reach your full potential, both now and in the future. For those who have tasted victory in the past they must feel even more confident and challenged to achieve more and climb to a higher status. Your past experiences will help you to learn more about yourself and speed the process of your current task at hand.

Be a champion – In case your past is a record of ups and downs, many failures, break that yoke and believe that you are a champion of tomorrow. It is only having a burning desire to taste victory that will help you become a winner. Therefore, be focused, committed and disciplined towards attaining success. Never worry about yesterday, in fact, you should use your past experiences to build on a better today.

If you want to get anywhere in life, make sure you concentrate on the problems that you can solve. Things that are outside of your control are just that–outside of your control so there is very little point spending any time dwelling on them. Focusing on the things within your control puts you in a much better position to act and taking action is what will change your situation.

So often, we get caught up in the day to day dramas that we have trouble finding the time to work on our dreams. Life just always seems to get in the way. But shouldn't your dreams be your life? What are we, if we don't have dreams, and goals that help us to reach our dreams? Dreams are so important for us to grow as a person. They give us a purpose in life.
Get a LIFE outside of work: Volunteer at your local homeless shelter or mentor/tutor at a youth program. Provide some type of service that allows you to make an impact. Also, have fun. All my life I’ve heard that these are the best years of your life. Get up from behind the computer or TV and experience the world. Even if you cannot leave the little spot of the world that you are in, I’m sure that you can discover something new in your own backyard.
Know your limit: No, it’s not healthy to drink more than one Red Bull a day or hang out to the early mornings every night. Your body and mind needs rest. You can’t effectively change the world with 3 hours of sleep. No matter how many wings Red Bull can give you.
Don’t forget about your Family/Friends: If you are reading this now and haven’t spoken to your best friend or Mom in a while (at least 2 weeks), pick up the phone and call them. Right now. I’ll wait. Staying grounded and sane helps when reaching for your dreams. So reach out, hang out…just reconnect. I promise you will feel a lot better.

As college comes to an end in a few weeks from now, I count down the things I’ve learned way back. College is about exploring, meeting new friends, and growing. But all that exploration and growth comes with a pretty big price tag, so it's wise to try to make the most of the experience.
1. Focus on Academics. Go to class. Going to your class and showing up is 50% of the battle. I already knew this, you see so many people flame out because they can't get their butts in the chair. Go to office hours. "Bring in a rough essay outline, with at least some idea of what you want to write about, and your teacher will literally help write the paper with you. And your teacher knows you, likes you, and is more willing to "see your point" on a final.
2. Work on Discovering Your Calling or Developing Career Skills. You'll gain valuable work experience, make yourself more attractive to potential employers, and, at the very least, narrow down what you want to do (or even if you want to do it!). Learn job-relevant skills. You don't have to decide what you want to do, but be certain to have skills that employers are seeking.
3. Get Social. It's not what you know, it's who you know. If you don't have job experience, network, network, network. Ivy League schools are coveted for their networking potential, not the piece of paper they hand out.
4. Make the Most of This Unique Time. Don't be in a rush to get out early. Stay in school. I graduated early and it wasn't worth it. Get involved with a sport, club, frat, political org, ANYTHING. Not only does it help to show employers that you are well-rounded when you're looking for jobs, it also introduces you to a whole new circle of friends while you're in school and makes the experience that much more enjoyable.

All of my experiences as an intern at Sinulog Foundation Inc. and DYHP at has taught me more than I could have imagined. Coming into this position, I felt that I had no idea where my career was going and I lacked confidence about what I could do and what I am really good at. My internship has definitely given me a better understanding of my skill set and where my career may take me, but most importantly, I’ve come to learn that I am not alone. This job has taught me that almost everybody is in my same position. Very few college students know what they want to do, and it is something that is simply not worth worrying about. Thanks to my I know that if I continue to work hard things will fall into place.
Writing, this was huge for me. I have always enjoyed writing, and always felt that I was pretty good at it. Yet, what this position taught me is that I really didn’t have the writing skills I thought I had. Writing takes practice and I simply was not practicing enough. Writing for the web and writing your average research paper could not be more different. I had to learn to adapt a new tone with my writing, something that took a little getting used to. This position kept me writing something new everyday, and I can say that my writing has improved drastically.
As I leave, I want to thank anyone who has been reading my blogs, and I’d also like to thank everyone here at Experience who has helped me out. This has truly been a great learning experience and I’ll be forever indebted to those who gave me a hand here. As far as your internship goes, remember to always be friendly, work hard, and ask questions. Always ask questions.

I learned several things yesterday that might help you prepare for your internships.
1. Be vigilant. You are under scrutiny and have deadlines to meet before you even know it.
2. Terms change. Every workspace (especially creative ones) has different terminology. “Deadlines” can become “deliverables,” and “meetings” can become “collaborations.” Keep your ears and eyes open and learn the lingo as quick as possible, or else you will be as articulate as someone who is struggling to speak a foreign language.
3. Do not, under any circumstances, attempt to close the blinds.
4. Project confidence: this is a no-brainer for any new opportunity, but I believe it applies even more for internships, where your reputation is the most important equity that you have. There is a fine line between confidence and arrogance. Don’t be afraid to have fun when branding yourself, but keep it within reason.
5. Let your work speak for itself. Telling someone that you’re the best for the job is not even half of the deal: rising to the occasion and putting forth your best work will ensure your success, if not at your internship, then somewhere else.

Slow down and let go. Most of us want to think of ourselves as good, kind, intelligent and caring people. Sometimes that’s true. Sometimes it isn’t. Reality is complex. We can’t function at all without constant input and support from other people. Everything we have, everything we’ve learned, came to us through someone else’s hands. At our best, we pass on this borrowed existence to others, enhanced by our contribution. At our worst, we waste and squander it. So recognize that you’re a rich mixture of thoughts and feelings that come and go, some useful, some not. There’s no need to keep up a façade; no need to pretend; no need to fear of what you know to be true.

When you face your own truth, you’ll find it’s an enormous relief. If you’re maybe not as wonderful as you’d like to be, you aren’t nearly as bad as you fear either. The truth really does set you free; free to work on being better and to forgive yourself for being human; free to express your gratitude to others and recognize what you owe them; free to acknowledge your feelings without letting them dominate your life. Above all, you’ll be free to understand the truth of living: that much of what happens to you is no more than chance. It can’t be avoided and is not your fault. There’s no point in beating yourself up about it.

What is holding you in situations and actions that no longer work for you often isn’t inertia or procrastination. It’s the power of habitual ways of seeing the world and thinking about events. Until you can let go of those old, worn-out habits, they’ll continue to hold you prisoner. To stay in your comfort zone through mere habit, or—worse still—to stay there because of irrational fears of what may lie outside, will condemn you to a life of frustration and regret.

If you can accept the truth about the world and yourself, change whatever is holding you back, and get on with a fresh view on life, you’ll find that single action lets you open the door of your self-imposed prison and walk free. There’s a marvelous world out there. You’ll see, if you try it.

Everyone starts from a dream. Dreams drive our determination to succeed. Dreams increase our will power. With this, as my final chapter of college comes to a close in a few months from now, where do stand and when do I start to walk towards it?

In reaching your dreams, it’s not always a safe and smooth road. You need to encounter a lot of trials and hardships. A lot of times you will fail before you can even see a first glimpse of success. You should be able “to fight the unbeatable foe” and “to run where the brave dare not go”. Failures are always part of every success. It teaches us valuable lessons in life. It makes us stronger to withstand more challenges that comes along our way in achieving our dreams. Sometimes, you will feel lonely in achieving these dreams as you have “to bear with unbearable sorrow”.

Do something—almost anything—differently and see what happens. Even the most successful habits eventually lose their usefulness as events change the world and fresh responses are called for. Yet we cling on to them long after their benefit has gone. Past strategies are bound to fail sometime. Letting them become automatic habits that take the controls is a sure road to self-inflicted harm.
Be who you are. It’s easy to assume that you always have to fit in to get on in the world; that you must conform to be liked and respected by others or face exclusion. Because most people want to please, they try to become what they believe others expect, even if it means forcing themselves to be the kind of person they aren’t, deep down.

You need to start by putting yourself first. You’re unique. We’re all unique, so saying this doesn’t suggest that you’re better than others or deserve more than they do. You need to put yourself first because no one else has as much interest in your life as you do; and because if you don’t, no one else will. Putting others second means giving them their due respect, not ignoring them totally. Keeping up a self-image can be a burden. Hanging on to an inflated, unrealistic one is a curse. Give yourself a break.